Jeffrey Jeffrey Jeffrey, You Did Me Wrong: A Cautionary Tale!

He was SO adorable and YOUNG and Scottish, or so he said. Jeff had contacted me through Coffee Meets Bagel. He was obviously much younger than he said and very good looking and oh so appealing. I do love Outlander!  And men in kilts! Oy. And he did call me “freaking hot.” Who could possibly …

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Potential Errors

I just realized that, when messaging strange men, I have been giving them a “hard sell” based on my many wonderful qualities. Is that too similar to how I dealt with potential clients? Instead, perhaps, I need to flatter them and their sensitive egos.   I just messaged one attractive man that we had so …

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Ouch!

I have been getting so many messages, from much younger men, from 20’s to slightly more acceptable 40's and 50's, that I was getting a bit too cocky.  I kept telling myself, after receiving dozens of compliments countrywide about how “beautiful” I was, that I must look pretty damn good  (for my age that is.) …

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The Date

The time kept getting pushed to later in the afternoon.  I was feeling a strange mix of anticipation and dread. Can I really and successfully do this? Was I kidding myself that a younger, hey much younger man, could even find me attractive? My fabulous friend Sheryl, who knows me well had this advice: “Breathe, …

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