Potential Errors

I just realized that, when messaging strange men, I have been giving them a “hard sell” based on my many wonderful qualities. Is that too similar to how I dealt with potential clients? Instead, perhaps, I need to flatter them and their sensitive egos.   I just messaged one attractive man that we had so …

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Ouch!

I have been getting so many messages, from much younger men, from 20’s to slightly more acceptable 40's and 50's, that I was getting a bit too cocky.  I kept telling myself, after receiving dozens of compliments countrywide about how “beautiful” I was, that I must look pretty damn good  (for my age that is.) …

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The Date

The time kept getting pushed to later in the afternoon.  I was feeling a strange mix of anticipation and dread. Can I really and successfully do this? Was I kidding myself that a younger, hey much younger man, could even find me attractive? My fabulous friend Sheryl, who knows me well had this advice: “Breathe, …

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Can a (not so) Old Jewish Lady Find Happiness With a Much Younger Man?

Today I was messaged by a very attractive dude, a professor in a neighboring town. He is only 48!  Wrote Prof back, that he is way too young for me and that my daughter would disapprove. His response was that he “loved older women and that I looked really great.”  Hmm, how soon can I …

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A Plethora of Dating Websites

Positively daunting! Where to even begin?  They hook you in by saying that they are free. So you happily post pictures and spend significant and thoughtful time creating a profile….. Then you get an email about all the likes and winks and buzz that you are generating. But guess what? They will not reveal that …

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